Ju-lia is coming!

This is me the mother of HeeChul speaking! Lol!~

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So anyways, Big bro is kinda worried about HeeChul since Ju-lia is coming to stay with us.

Although i've reassured him tons of times (did loads of research) that there isn't any to worried as long as there's supervision and precaution, but being a newborn's parent, its just natural he "over-worried" abit.
I admit i didn't take it too well when he suddenly questioned me on with how we should deal with HeeChul... i got all defensive because i'm protective over my HeeChul, and took it as an offence... but i understand he just wants the best for Ju-lia, my darling niece, and also for me and the big fat prat, HeeChul.

So technically, yeah, i've got loads to do up my hand!

And hoping Her Royal Highness will cooperate with me of course!

But considering the fact that she HATES kids, hates noises and people (except for food), so i'm not particularly worried.

If you give her a choice between Ju-lia and bath, i'm sure she would choose bathing at any time. Trust me, she is not very fond of kids. Come to think of it, she isn't fond of anybody except my sister-in-law because she never scolds her.

Though, she is very curious, so i'm sure she'll be dying to "explore" whats up with all the "big commotion" at home!
I'll have to do some "introduction-session" with HeeChul and Ju-lia, just to get HeeChul used to it, which i hope Big Bro and DaiSou won't mind...

She, the fat one, needs to know.

Otherwise it'll just make her more curious.

If after she knows, then she'll probably steer clear forever, as explained before.


Another thing is, since i'm VERY against the use of cage...

I used to agree about it, but i did some thinking... its unfair for HeeChul if she have to be shove into a cage, whether small or large, for 24/7 just because Ju-lia is coming.
If any, it'll probably make her dislike Ju-lia.

Trust me, she have her very own mind, that cat.
I would know.

Because of that, as her mother and her Aunt, i'll have loads more to do! But i wouldn't mind, i love HeeChul as much as i love Ju-lia, so i'll just do whatever i can and compromise.


At night, HeeChul will be sleeping with me, of course. So no problems there.
However in the morning, although HeeChul prefers to be outside the house, anyways, i'm considering if me or mom isn't home, HeeChul will be confined within my room.

Yes, litterbox in my toilet.
Ugh.
Thank KaiLeong for scented litters!


Apart from that, really, HeeChul prefers outside, dislike kids, dislike noises, dislikes everything else... except food and games.

And do you know she like to sleeps on higher places?
But because everybody passes by that place (above the ship display) she always sleeps on, she always got woken up, so now she changed to sleep above the piano in the study room, where she can stay "above everyone else" and not be as often-ly disturbed from her nap.

So i'm really not particularly worried as long as there's supervision, because i'm sure HeeChul would keep away from Ju-lia, especially when she cries.

The fat one likes quiet.


I've actually did LOADS of research; before and after Ju-lia's arrival, on whether newborn and cats can co-exist and all...

I've NEVER EVER even read one comment or article saying that they can't co-exist. If there is, there's LOADS of stuffs about how it actually BENEFITS.
And there are so many personal experiences around the net that i've read about, i'm surprise that there are still more "old-fashioned-traditional-brainlessmindset" now!

Most articles said as long as you are there to supervise, there is no need to get rid of the pets.
Thats one of the main cause why animal shelter are littered with unwanted pets, and i swear to myself i'll never do that. Whatever the reason.
Only mindless brain baboons will get rid of their pets when babies arrive (unless if the baby is born allergic to fur, otherwise whatever reason they give will most likely be idiotic, and therefore they will be and are mindless brain baboons.), because they are too brainless to go inquire with the pediatricians, vets, INTERNET for heaven's sake!

Therefore, why do i want to do something which i really hate everyone else is doing? Wouldn't i be hating myself then?


Anyways, there are actually benefits to keeping a pet at home, because it lessens the possibility of allergy later in life, as the immune system still hasn't figure out that it should overreact when the baby is small. Besides, the baby will grow up with understanding that other beings have feelings, demands respect and care, and it'll teach the baby to be more empathic. Isn't that good?
(Credit: Yahoo! Answers)

Precaution is necessary.

Paranoidness isn't.

Its just annoying.

Another thing is, i'm also especially worried about the fat one's feelings.
Contrary to whatever beliefs, cat's DO have feelings you know.

And HeeChul is a sensitive brat.
She actually GLARES at me if i wipe my hand with wet tissue immediately after petting her. She got used to it, but she really will give off the vibe of being annoyed (at you) for doing so.

One is i'm not worried with me, i'll try my best to give her the same attention as before. I'll try my best to ensure nothing will change (my feelings for her), except just the living arrangements.

But i'm POSITIVELY sure everyone else will start treating her as if she's alien about to spread tentacles which will strangle anyone if they get near her.

Ooh, and her eyes will shoot laser if everyone dares look at her.

It'll break my heart when everybody treats her so, but everyone else is just human.

So i've just got to spoil her more to make her feel better, but i think she'll be happier with "more food" anyways?


That pretty much sums up everything, i just hope everything will go well, and as much as i'll do my best to go with everything else, and compromising and understanding, i PRAY PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE NO PARANOIA!!

If there is, i'm probably going to sprout wings, HeeChul will sprout mini-ones, and we'll flyaway to SuJu-land, where's we're most welcome all the time, to get away from it all.

I've a lot of stuffs at hand now that if you give me more stress, guarantee i'll go nuts.



Good website:
CATS AND BABIES CAN COEXIST.
Love the picture of the baby and cats sleeping!

There are more, go google for more choices.